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Bleeding after first sex

I’m a girl of fourteen and I have already decided not to have sex before I get married. But I was wondering if people bleed a lot when they have sex for the first time? Is it just a few millilitres, or as much as when I have my period? Is it very sore? (I’ve heard it is.)

Hope you can answer me!


That’s great that you have decided to wait until you are married before you have sex!

The hymen is a thin fold of mucous membrane two centimetres inside the opening of the vagina. This can be torn when it is stretched the first time you have sex, and it can bleed a little. It will only bleed a little, and it is not very painful. It is also totally normal not to bleed at all the first time you have sex.


Best wishes

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