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Is it wrong to think about kissing?

Is it wrong to think about kissing and cuddling another person, the same way it is wrong to lust after sex with someone before marriage?

Hi, and thank you for the question you sent us. 

We don't know how old you are, but if you're in your teens or early adulthood, first of all, we want to say that it's completely normal to think about sex. It really applies to all people. We are all created as sexual beings. What is important is to what extent this should have room and space in our thoughts and minds. It does not mean we should compulsively avoid thinking about kissing and cuddling with a potential partner. Then, it can quickly get even more space in our minds. As Christians, we can thank God for allowing us to experience healthy attraction to the opposite sex. Thank God for healthy feelings and leave it to Him to give you the right lover when the time is right. What we would advise you to do is to think about what you fill your time with. For example, it's fun to be on social media or watch a movie, but if what you're watching contains sex or a lot of romance, it can quickly lead to your thinking life also revolving around this more.

Here, it is wise to set healthy boundaries for yourself. Try to do more of what builds you up and gives you something positive. The thing that you like to do. And when the urge to kiss and cuddle comes up, just relax. It's perfectly normal.

We have several articles and questions on the website that deal with these topics. Here are answers to a previous question and a couple of articles we can recommend:

What about Paradise Hotel?
About sexual feelings
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