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Was I unfaithful?
Hi, I’m a girl of 17 and I’ve got a fantastic boyfriend, we’ve been together for eight months. He doesn’t live in Norway, but we are both certain that we have a future together. Someone else has shown some interest in me, but I’ve said clearly that I will not break up with my boyfriend or be unfaithful to him.
Today the other guy asked if we could meet, and I met him to hear what he had to say (he’s quite a nice guy). Later, he asked me some questions about my boyfriend, and finally he hugged me and kissed me. I tried to wriggle out of it and say ‘stop’, but he kissed me twice. He finally stopped, and I left as soon as possible after. My question is if this is my fault, and if I was unfaithful?
Thanks in advance for the answer.
Hi girl of 17!
You wrote that you made it clear to him that you already have a boyfriend. You tried to turn away and asked him to stop when he kissed you.
You have not been unfaithful, and it really doesn’t sound like it was your fault.
It was good that you got up and left! It could be an idea to keep away from him, or at least don’t be alone with him since he has shown that he respects neither your boundaries nor your words.
Best wishes, boyandgirl.info
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