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I don't dare talk to the boy I like


I like a boy, but I don't dare talk to the boy I like. What should I do?



I like a boy, but I don't dare talk to the boy I like.  What should I do? 

Hello and thank you for your question.

This is a situation that many people can relate to! If you like someone or are in love, it can be particularly scary to talk to them. That's perfectly normal. Here are some tips to make it easier to talk to him:

1. Talk to him together with others. If you have a few friends in common, it will be easier to talk to him if you don't have to steer the conversation yourself.

2. Find out if there is anything he is interested in. It could be an interest, something he's done recently, a hobby or something similar.

3. Keep it short - remember that a conversation doesn't have to be long! You can still connect by making a comment, saying hello or asking for help with something. This will show interest without having to start a long conversation. You may find that you feel more relaxed around them and that it feels more natural to talk more.

Remember that he's human, just like you, and the best way to find out if he's someone you want to get to know better is to talk to him.

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